I had intended to write this blog on National Grandparents Day – September 8th. Since I had just become a new grandparent, I figured it would be appropriate. I realize that Locke probably won’t look to his grandparents as his first or best source for advice. I’m guessing he’ll turn to Google, or whatever has replaced Google by the time he’s old enough to seek advice.
Even though it’s a little later than I intended, both you faith readers are welcome to continue reading, but this is for Locke.
Dear Locke,
Welcome to this world – I’m afraid we haven’t gotten it in the best condition for you, but it’s still a pretty good place. You’ve already started to look around with fresh eyes and a sense of wonder. Hopefully, you’ll never lose that sense of wonder and fascination.
So what should you do? Whatever you want. Even though it’s not a perfect world, the list of possible experiences open to you is virtually endless. Years from now, you’ll probably hear from your parents and others that I was a great one to give advice – never took much of it myself, but boy could I dish it out. Just so you don’t feel left out, here’s some advice for my favorite grandson….
• Always do the best you can.
• Don’t be afraid to try new things.
• Be honest.
• Don’t be judgmental.
• Don’t try to be someone else or live up someone else’s expectations.
• But, just always try your best…
Figure out what you are passionate about — throughout your life. Trust me, this will change over time. Recognize your passion, pursue it and see how far you can go in life with it. Never – never – let other people tell you what is important to you. You’ll get a lot of advice (some of it good, like this blog) but never answers.
You will make mistakes — some of these “mistakes” will be so deemed by society, family or even yourself. They are going to happen, but life is an adventure — try to learn from mistakes and not make them again. Just never forget — always try your best.
Love you lots,
Grampy
(or whatever name you choose for me.)
— 30 —
Very good advice 🙂