What Would Jimmy Do?

Today is Mother’s Day — a day that gives people a special opportunity to show their gratitude to the moms, grandmas, stepmoms, aunts, and other maternal figures in their lives. Mother’s Day is always the second Sunday in May — this year, that’s May 8.

The average age for first time mothers has gone up over the past 20 years… in 2000, the average age was 24.9 years, in 2020 it was 27.1 years old.

Mother’s Day always falls on a Sunday, and attending church is a popular activity among families. A recent poll asking pastors about the highest attended Sundays at their churches throughout the year, Mother’s Day ranked third behind Easter and Christmas.

Today has always been a day to take mom out to dinner — even during the pandemic. In 2020, consumer spending at restaurants increased 103 percent on Mother’s Day Sunday (compared to the average daily revenue throughout the pandemic. 

Some data indicates that the Greeks and Romans celebrated Mother’s day by honoring goddess Cybele, personifying Mother Earth (Gaia) and the goddess of fertility, and Rhea, mother of the gods.

The idea of Mother’s Day first surfaced in the United States after the Civil War and was suggested by social activist Julia Ward Howe. However, her vision was a Mother’s Day for Peace — where women would protest against war. 

The current version of Mother’s Day was started by Anna Jarvis in the early 1900s. Jarvis persuaded President Woodrow Wilson to declare that the second Sunday of every May would be Mother’s Day. But less than 10 years after she fought so hard to make it happen, Anna Jarvis despised the holiday and spoke out vehemently about the commercialization of Mother’s Day, and called for its demise. She was actually arrested during one of her protests in 1948.

They say a woman’s work is never done — that’s especially true for moms… it’s a 24/7, 365-day commitment and according to research, stay-at-home-moms should earn $162,581 a year.

So the old adage that “life doesn’t come with a manual; it comes with a mother,” is probably true and we should thank her every day, but maybe especially today — Happy Mother’s Day.
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Well, we made it!! The big five-O — If you were at this space last year at this time, you know that I was bemoaning the fact that we’d been married for 49 years and that, according to the experts, wasn’t anything special…. it just counted as another year of being married. 

You all know that I try to provide factual information here — of course sometime i resort to “alternate facts,” but this is real data, provided by the Census Bureau. Fifty-five percent of currently married couples have been married for at least 15 years, and thirty-five percent have reached their 15th anniversary. But — only six percent have made it to their 50th wedding anniversary.

So that puts us in a pretty select group. Our lives have changed in so many ways over the past 50 years…. I’ve mentioned before, that we’re now the elders of the family. When we got married, there were no iPhones and personal computers didn’t exist and if they had, no one would have had any idea what to do with them. Nine-eleven was just the eleventh day of September, mass shootings hadn’t yet become popular. And of course, who would have imagined that we’d have to live through a pandemic to get to 50 years.

A couple of people have said to me, “gee, that’s a long time — how’d you do it?” I never thought about it being particularly difficult — we’ve been lucky, we’ve had many, many more good times than bad times. 

I gave the same advice to both Kelly and David when they got married. I told them that the development of a good marriage isn’t a natural process — it’s an achievement. So I guess being married for 50 years is an achievement.

I also told both kids that the key to a good marriage was to love each other for what they are, not what you want them to be. Don’t enter marriage thinking someone will change, or that you can change someone. Over the years, there are two or three things I’d like to change about Claire, and there is something more than 16,000 things she’d like to change about me. But I didn’t and she didn’t.
That enabled two un-perfect people to put together pretty close to a perfect marriage. 
I propose a toast to the best 50 years of my life!!
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So today is the day you should probably just avoid all the Mexican restaurants — it’s Cinco de Mayo Day. We avoid restaurants on Valentine’s Day because they’e always packed, and we do the same for Mexican restaurants on Cinco de Mayo Day for the same reason.

We always celebrate Cinco de Mayo a day or so before, or sometimes a few days after. But, as has become the custom here on this blog, this is a day to talk about this, mostly American, holiday. Maybe I can even avoid repeating the things I’ve written on May 5 in past years…..

As a bit of background, the so-called War of Reform broke out in 1858, shortly after liberals drafted a new constitution aimed at reducing the power and influence of the Catholic Church. During the conflict, Mexico had two governments — a conservative one in Mexico City led by General Félix Zuloaga and a liberal one in Veracruz led by Benito Juarez, president of the supreme court. The liberals emerged “victorious” in 1861but the country remained starkly divided, with the conservatives plotting their revenge.

After the War of Reform, Mexico had virtually no money in its treasury and owed tens of millions of dollars to foreign debtors. President Juarez suspended payment of all foreign debt for two years — a move that prompted an immediate backlash from Spain, France and Great Britain. At the time, the United States was too consumed by its own Civil War to worry about enforcing the Monroe Doctrine and troops from those three countries began arriving in Veracruz in late 1861. Spain and Great Britain almost immediately withdrew, but about 6,000 French troops pushed inland toward the capital, supported by Mexico’s vanquished conservative leaders. 

In 1862, the French had one of the best armies in the world. When they arrived at Puebla, on May 4, they were coming off a series of victories in Southeast Asia and Northern Africa and were loaded with firepower, including long-range rifles that put the Mexicans’ muskets to shame. On the morning of May 5, the French tried to intimidate the Mexicans with bugle calls and advanced bayonet maneuvers, but after a full day of fighting, including three unsuccessful uphill charges, they were forced to retreat due to heavy casualties. 

Mexico’s victory at Puebla slowed, but didn’t stop France’s assault. After the Puebla battle, Napoleon sent almost 30,000 more troops to Mexico, and they were able to overrun Puebla and easily conquer Mexico City.

President Juarez declared Cinco de Mayo a holiday immediately after the Battle of Puebla, but for many/most Mexicans, it has always taken a backseat to events like the September 16 Independence Day. But in the United States, Cinco de. Mayo gained traction during the 1960s when activists in Chicago began looking for a way to honor their history and culture.

Cinco de Mayo is mostly celebrated in Puebla, Mexico — not across the entire country…. the Battle of Puebla was a short, small battle and certainly didn’t signal winning the war. And while Mexico didn’t win the war, this small victory gave hope to people across the world fighting against larger, stronger enemies.

So today, we celebrate the Battle of Puebla — a battle that lasted only about 4 hours. Seems like a good reason for margaritas to me…..
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I don’t know about you but, at this point in time, I’m getting tired of hearing about the Presidential election being “stolen.” A lot of things are believed because they are obviously, or demonstrably true. But some things are believed because they are consistent with some broadly held vision of a number of people — and this vision is accepted as a substitute for the facts.

Someone once said, “Never underestimate the difficulty of changing false beliefs by facts.” I’m not sure who said it, but he or she was right on the money.

The problem is that false beliefs are not always just crazy ideas — they are often both plausible and logical — but there’s always something missing. Their plausibility often gains them political support. 

I read a book on economics recently that discussed fallacies and the author indicated that sometimes what is missing in a fallacy is simply a definition. I think he’s right. Particular words appear to have special powers, especially in politics, like fair, equality, social justice, etc. The fact that terms like these are undefined is a huge political advantage. These “undefined” terms can mean wholly different things to different groups or individuals but for some reason they come together in support of movements that use such appealing words.

A lot of fallacies have been around forever — there are many reasons why they have such staying power, even in the face of hard evidence against them. Elected officials can’t readily admit that they were wrong, or some policy or movement they supported turned out badly without — in their minds — risking their whole career. No one likes to admit being wrong. But sometimes the cost of not admitting to being wrong are too high to ignore.

Many beliefs that collapse under scrutiny may continue to exist indefinitely when they are not examined, and especially when skilled advocates are able to perpetuate those beliefs by forestalling scrutiny through appeals to emotions and/or interests.

Some of the fallacies we read about today in the newspapers and on the Internet are old — maybe centuries old — and were refuted long ago, but many have been repackaged in up-to-date rhetoric to suit current times.

So people are going to continue to believe what they believe, based on appealing terms, politics, old wives tales, whatever… not the facts. I predict we’re going to continue to hear about the “stolen election” for many, many years even though facts prove statistically there is enough voter fraud to sway exactly zero elections.
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It’s funny how the riddles and jokes we thought was so funny as a kid are still just as funny to our kids, and grandkids. Emily asked “what’s black and white and red all over?” on one of her recent visits. I guessed a newspaper, but the answer was a zebra with a sunburn. She thought that was pretty funny, so I thought I’d get a little deeper into the subject with her and I asked her whether zebras were white with black stripes or black with white stripes. Actually, all I got was a slightly puzzled look and the subject moved on to something more important….
But that question does have a (real) answer, and at the risk of spoiling any fun you might have speculating — zebras are black with white stripes. 

All of a zebra’s fur, both black and white, grows from follicles that contain melanocyte cells. (Melanin is a dark pigment primarily responsible for skin color. Darker skin tones tones have more melanosomes present than lighter skin tones. Functionally, melanin serves as protection against UV radiation.) These cells are are present in all animals, and they’re primarily responsible for generating the pigment that gives color to skin and hair. Melanocyte cells produce melanin — the pigment — that is outwardly visible. In zebras, chemical messengers determine which melanocytes deliver pigment to which section of fur and creates the zebra’s black and white pattern. It’s interesting that the white fur on a zebra represents an absence of melanin….therefore, black is the “default” color of a zebra. If you shaved all the fur off a zebra, there would be no stripes — it would be an all-black animal. 

So there you have it! Maybe a more interesting question is why do zebras have stripes at all? Turns out that that’s a much harder question — no one is really sure.

There seems to be dozens of theories as to why they have stripes… one theory that’s kind of interesting is that stripes provide protection from biting flies. A recent study found that striping on animals is more common in areas rife with biting flies — that may mean that biting flies struggle to see a striped or black-and-white surface as a safe place to land.

Another interesting theory is that of thermoregulation whose argument is based on the fact that black stripes absorb heat to warm zebras in the morning chill and white stripes reflect the sun to cool zebras in the afternoon heat. 

So we do know what color a zebra is, but we don’t know why they have stripes. I read an article that suggested using zebras as a metaphor for racial harmony. Actually, that sounds like a good idea to me — after all, black or white, the footprints left in the dirt are the same….
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I’m getting really tired of reading, and hearing, about the arguments in Congress. It sure seems as if all of the disagreements are based on “what’s best for me, or my party, the country be damned.” 

You’ve probably gathered from reading this blog, that my opinion of our elected officials has continued to deteriorate over the years and is currently at an all time low. I don’t ever remember issues that are important to our country and citizens becoming “all about me” until relatively recently. 

During my working years, I spent some amount of time in meetings with various Senate committees. A high percentage of these committee members were more interested in just getting their name in the record rather than working the problems/issues. A few were always present in order to “break the record” for attendance by their predecessors. 
Actually, Senate members have always  taken some satisfaction from setting records — just like baseball or football players. This brings me to my topic for the day….

One Senator, back in 1859, established a record that hasn’t been broken to this day — and very possibly will never be broken.
California Senator David Broderick, in September of 1859, became the only sitting senator to die in a duel. 

Broderick was born in Washington, D.C. in 1820 — the son of a stonemason who worked on the Capitol. His family later moved to New York City, where he worked as a stonemason and a saloon keeper. He was an avid reader and became a shrewd student of human nature, and observed the super heated political culture of New York City’s ward politics. 
He joined the 1849 gold rush to California and settled in San Francisco, where he quickly made a fortune in real estate. He was elected to the California  state senate, where he became a power broker within the Democratic Party’s antislavery wing and set his eyes on a seat in the U.S Senate.

During the campaign for the Senate, California chief justice David Terry denounced Broderick as no longer a true Democrat. In Terry’s opinion, Broderick was following the “wrong Douglas.” (He had abandoned Democratic Party leader Stephen Douglas in favor of “black Republican” leader Frederick Douglass.) Broderick angrily responded that Terry was a dishonest judge and a “miserable wretch.” Because of these words, Terry challenged Broderick to a duel.

The two met early on the morning of September 13 at Lake Merced, south of San Francisco. Broderick’s pistol discharged prematurely — and Terry cooly aimed and fired into Broderick’s chest. The senator’s death three days later established Broderick as a rough-and-tumble political operator with a martyr’s crown, and accelerated the downward spiral to civil war. David Terry was acquitted of the crime and went on to serve the Confederacy. Years later, in 1869, Terry was gunned down after threatening the life of Supreme Court Justice Stephen Field.
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A while back, I mentioned here that I enjoyed playing games with our grandkids. Most of the card games we play use unique decks for a particular game, like Uno, Crazy 8, etc. But sometimes we play card games using a standard deck of cards. One of the times I was playing with Emily, she made the comment that “face” cards (I think she called them “picture” cards) were really ugly. 
I told her that the “pictures” were drawings of real people — she was more skeptical than impressed and of course when she asked who, she wasn’t familiar with any of the names, so she probably just put  the information in the category of another one of Poppi’s tales.

But supposedly the face cards do represent real people. Playing cards were introduced in Europe in the early 1400s and face cards were initially composed of only Kings, Knights and “knaves” (now known as Jacks.) It wasn’t until around 1440 that Queens made their introduction — first in Germany. 

Anyhow, there’s not total agreement, but most people in the know about these things believe today’s face cards depict these people:
King of Spades — David (from the Bible, the King of Israel)
King of Clubs — Alexander the Great (King of Macedonia)
King of Diamonds — Julius Caesar (dictator of the Roman Republic)
King of Hearts — Charles the 1st (King and Holy Roman Emperor of Italy)
Queen of Spades — Pallas Athena (In Greek mythology, Athena was the goddess of wisdom, courage, inspiration, civilization, law and justice, just warfare, mathematics, strength, strategy, arts and skill — whew!!)
Queen of Clubs —  Argine or Argea (One theory is that Argine is an anagram for “regina,” latin for “Queen.” Others think the Queen of Clubs  represents Argea, the mythological mother of Argus)
Queen of Diamonds — Rachel (Another biblical figure, Rachel was the mother of both Benjamin and Joseph)
Queen of Hearts — Judith (the fictional heroine of The Book of Judith, from the Old Testament of the Eastern Orthodox Bible.)
Jack of Spades — Ogier the Dane (the son of the King of Denmark in 8th century.)
Jack of Clubs — Judas Maccabeus or Lancelot (A never settled debate)
(Judas Maccabeus was a Jewish priest that is acclaimed as one of the greatest warriors in Jewish history. Sir Lancelot of the “knights of the Roundtable” and the most trusted of King Arthur’s knights.)
Jack of Diamonds — Hector (A Trojan prince in Greek mythology, the greatest fighter for Troy in the Trojan War.)
Jack of Hearts — La Hire (Étienne de Vigolies, called La Hire was a French military commander during the Hundred Years’ War.)

If you’re wondering why these people were chosen, it probably comes from the early origins of playing cards. The face cards we see today were developed in 16th century France when they pretty much took over the production of playing cards.

But no matter who, or even if, the face cards represent real people, playing cards have had some amount of influence in all our lives — we can’t change the cards we are dealt, it’s just how we play the hand. I remember my uncle used to say, trust everybody, but cut the cards…..
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I was given some golf balls last year — I never got around to opening the bag they were in before the weather got cold. A couple of days ago, in anticipation of good golfing weather, I decided to put them I’m my golf bag. Turns out they were Nike golf balls. They didn’t have any name on them, but I knew they were Nike because they had a “swoosh” on them. The Nike emblem is so well known that some of their products and advertisements omit the Nike name altogether and just use the logo.

Nike is  a United States corporation with headquarters in Washington County in Oregon. The company was founded in 1964 by Phil Knight and Bill Bowerman and was initially known as Blue Ribbon Sports but switched to the present Nike name in 1971. 
The Nike Swoosh is one of the most recognizable logos in the world. I figured that the company paid some major advertising firm big bucks to come up with the design. But that’s not the case.

In 1969, Phil Knight, one of the co-founders of Nike was an assistant professor at Portland State University. One of the students, studying graphic design at PSU, was Carolyn Davidson. Knight knew Davidson was in search of extra funds because she wanted to take oil painting classes, so he asked her to help him out on some projects — at the rate of $2.00 an hour. Shortly afterwards, Knight came up with the idea to strike out on his own and create his own brand of athletic shoes. He asked Davidson, as a side job, to help him come up with a stripe — or an image that could go on the side of the shoe.

Davidson came up with the Nike Swoosh — a check mark shape that was fluid and indicated movement and speed. The image also resembled a wing and helped the company decide on the brand name Nike, named after the Greek goddess of victory. After some fine tuning work on the logo, Davidson handed the design over to Knight… her charge? $35.00.

Davidson continued to design for Nike until 1975. But when she graduated from school, she decided to be a work from home freelance designer — something she continued to do for about 30 years. 

Davidson indicated that she didn’t know how long she worked on the Nike Swoosh, but she only charged Knight for 17 ½ hours of work — which amounted to the $35.00 paycheck.
Even though she was paid only $35, she was honored by the company when they threw a party in her honor — and — she was also given a generous amount of stock in the company, along with a diamond and gold ring featuring the Swoosh design. 

Over the years, Nike has come up with some great slogans to inspire people to do their best… I remember one that probably fits the bill for Carolyn Davidson — “Start unknown. Finish unforgettable.”
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Today (April 22) is Earth Day — a day when humans everywhere take a minute to be grateful for our planet and the amazing natural resources we’ve enjoyed…. at least so far.

Earth Day was started in 1970 by Wisconsin Senator Gaylord Nelson. Senator Nelson was concerned that environmental issues were not being addressed in the political arena, especially after he witnessed the aftermath of an oil spill in California in 1969. He was inspired by Vietnam War protests to organized a nationwide grassroots demonstration to promote conservation awareness and involvement. 
Nelson set his demonstration for April 22, 2970. He chose the date to fall between spring break and final exams in the hope that college students would participate. About 20 million Americans showed their support and it soon became the first official “Earth Day.”

Believe it or not, both republicans and democrats (in 1970) responded to the environmental conservation messages of Earth Day. The movement helped inspire the United States Environmental Protection Agency (EPA,) as well as the Clean Air, Clean Water, and Endangered Species acts.

The campaign spread internationally and by 1990, 200 million people mobilized in 141 countries.
Today, people in more than 190 countries will participate with rallies, concerts, acts of service, and outdoor activities. One of the most popular Earth Day songs, Earth Anthem, was written in 2013 by Indian poet Abhay Kumar — it has been translated and recorded in all official UN languages.

This year we’re celebrating the 52nd Earth Day with the theme “Invest in Our Planet.” We all need to take an active part in saving out planet and figuring out new ways to do it. Socrates said, the secret of change is to focus all of your energy not on fighting the old, but on building the new. 

However you choose to honor it, Earth Day is a great way to jumpstart a lifetime dedication to taking better care of our planet.

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A few days ago I blogged about Colonel Lee’s Mongolian BBQ — one of my all time favorite places from my past. It turns out that there really was a Colonel Lee and he really was a colonel — in Taiwan’s Republic of China army. 

I actually met Colonel Lee… during one of my many nights at Colonel Lee’s in Mountain View, he came into his restaurant that was located on Castro Street. I’m pretty sure he lived in the Los Angeles area at the time. The manager/owner of the Mountain View restaurant brought Colonel Lee over to our table and he sat down with us for a few minutes — maybe because he was told that I was their best customer…. even though I lived in Virginia. 

As I said, Colonel Lee, who was introduced to me as “John,” was an actual colonel in Taiwan’s army and immigrated to the U.S. in 1966. I remember having a very nice conversation and told everyone the next day that I had met the real Colonel Lee. No one was as impressed as I was.
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