{"id":1960,"date":"2020-06-18T14:19:54","date_gmt":"2020-06-18T14:19:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/?p=1960"},"modified":"2020-06-18T14:19:55","modified_gmt":"2020-06-18T14:19:55","slug":"gaslighting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/?p=1960","title":{"rendered":"Gaslighting"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>To say a lot of things have changed lately would be a huge understatement. Our language is constantly evolving and I have trouble understanding our granddaughter\u2019s messages sometimes because she (apparently) uses the younger generation&#8217;s \u201cshorthand.\u201d And new words and terms are constantly appearing in the news\u2026. sometimes I stop in the middle of an article to check the meaning of a new word that seems to have just \u201cpopped up.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of those words that I\u2019ve seen a lot lately is <em>gaslighting<\/em>. Gaslighting has been all over the press lately \u2014 usually in reference to Donald Trump. So what does the word mean? Gaslighting is used to describe abusive behavior \u2014 specifically when&nbsp; an abuser manipulates information in such a way as to make a victim question his or her sanity. Gaslighting intentionally makes someone doubt their memories or perception of reality.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The term has been thrown around recently both correctly and incorrectly. A lot of news articles accuse Trump of gaslighting his followers or the American public. The word has been used to describe the President\u2019s comments disputing proven facts throughout his presidency.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The term gaslighting originated in a 1938 British play, \u201cGas Light\u201d \u2014 a mystery\/thriller, by playwright Patrick Hamilton that premiered in London. The play was made into a film in 1944 as \u201cGaslight\u201d and starred Charles Boyer and Ingrid Bergman as a husband and wife. Throughout the film, the abusive husband manipulates his wife to make her feel like she has gone mad. The film gets its name because the husband uses the gas lights in an upstairs room, causing them to dim, supposedly on their own. His wife brings this up, and he convinces her she\u2019s imagining the lights dimming\u2026 contributing to her thinking she\u2019s going mad.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So the term and phenomena have been around for a long time, and it\u2019s probably been practiced in relationships, friendships and families over the years, but it seems it\u2019s now become a manipulative technique at the national level\u2026..<br>\u2014 30 \u2014<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To say a lot of things have changed lately would be a huge understatement. Our language is constantly evolving and I have trouble understanding our granddaughter\u2019s messages sometimes because she (apparently) uses the younger generation&#8217;s \u201cshorthand.\u201d And new words and &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/?p=1960\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1960"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1960"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1960\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1961,"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1960\/revisions\/1961"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1960"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1960"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/jimmy.ekota.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1960"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}